Welcome to Direct Approach Lifestyle

When it comes to dating and romantic/sexual relationships, what if I told you that it is possible to be direct, honest and authentic with women and get what you want without playing games or manipulating anyone, without lies, without tactics, techniques, tricks, or gimmicks?

Are you tired of the traditional cliché dating advice and the garbage spewed by pickup artists, the seduction community and the new generation of clickbait, cookie-cutter YouTube dating coaches?

It's time for something a bit more realistic, simpler, and more authentic. It's a philosophy called the Direct Approach and it will forever change the way you approach dating and romantic/sexual relationships.

So, what is the Direct Approach all about? Read on…

The idea behind the Direct Approach is to always be honest and authentic with women about your intentions and who you are. It's about getting what you want out of dating, sex and relationships in the most efficient and authentic way, without wasting time, money, or energy on women who aren't on the same page as you, without making yourself look like a fool or losing your dignity or self-respect in the pursuit of women.

You see, in this day and age it has become very confusing and complicated for men and women to get together romantically or sexually. The reason for this is that men and women play too many mind games with each other. There is too much manipulation and dishonesty going on between men and women, and the result is a lot of resentment, frustration, and bitterness between the sexes. This is often referred to as 'the battle of the sexes.'

The solution to all this madness is quite simple: we need to stop playing mind games and manipulating each other, and instead we need to be honest and authentic with each other. It is only when we put aside the masks and be our true selves that we can have truly healthy and fulfilling relationships.

This is the essence of what the Direct Approach is all about.

The Direct Approach is an upfront, honest and authentic communication style and way of living which you apply with women and in ALL areas of your life, hence why I call it the Direct Approach Lifestyle.

The Direct Approach means being your authentic self with women (and in life). You are always honest about who you really are, and you never put on a façade or try to impress them with a fake personality.

The Direct Approach also means being honest about your romantic & sexual intentions with women - you approach them and let them know right from the start that you think they're attractive. You don't beat around the bush. You don't try and 'sneak in under the radar', and you never hide your attraction or play games with women. You also don’t use any corny chat up lines, or manipulative techniques, tactics, tricks or gimmicks.

You make it clear from the start that you are not looking for a platonic friend, but rather you are looking for a lover, a romantic or sexual relationship, whether that's casual sex, a monogamous girlfriend, a fling, a polyamorous lover, and also whether it's monogamous or non-monogamous, serious or casual, short term, medium term or long term. You tell women all this upfront so there are no misunderstandings.

The Direct Approach is about conducting your relationships with honesty, trust and respect as the foundation, as well as having totally open and honest communication in and out of the bedroom. As a direct guy, you genuinely like and respect  women; you are never bitter or resentful towards them.

The Direct Approach means you confidently embrace your sexuality without any shame or guilt, and you empower women to do the same! You don't hide or dial down your sexual side with women you are attracted to, Of course you keep everything legal and mutually consenting.

The Direct Approach, you approach women in person, face to face, in the real world - i.e. you go directly to them. You do not meet women through dating/hook up sites or apps, social media etc. You also communicate your intentions to women face to face or via phone, and don't rely excessively on text messaging, instant messaging etc like most other guys.

The Direct Approach means having mutually enjoyable romantic and sexual relationships with women. You don't stay in miserable, unhappy or abusive relationships.

The Direct Approach involves having rules and boundaries; you don't tolerate disrespect of any kind from women, and you're not afraid to speak up if your partner disrespects you. You are prepared to walk away and find another girl if you're not being treated right, or if the relationship stops being mutually satisfying.

The Direct Approach ultimately, means having peaceful and fulfilling relationships, whether they are monogamous or non-monogamous, regardless of how long your relationships last.

The Direct Approach doesn't mean being idealistic or deluded about romantic & sexual relationships.. You understand that women aren't perfect creatures and that not every women is right for you. You also accept that some rejection and disappointment is an inevitable part of the journey of being successful with women, so if a woman isn't interested or it doesn't work out with her, you gracefully accept it and move on to the next women without any bitterness, bruised ego or adverse effects on your confidence.

It is my goal to promote the Direct Approach through this website, social media and e-book, and to empower men and women to be Direct with each other, so that they can have more enjoyable and fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships with each other.

I hope you enjoy my blog and ebooks on how to be authentic and honest in your romantic/sexual relationships. If you have any feedback, please comment on my blog posts or email me through the contact page.