This website and my work is dedicated to the memory of the two best direct dating coaches in the world, Alan Roger Currie and David X who both passed away a few years ago. The purpose of this website, my Youtube channel and ebook is to promote the direct approach to more guys, share my own insights of direct as well as help maintain the legacy and teachings of Alan Roger Currie and David X.

 

I do not claim to have invented the direct approach, nor is it my intention to be a rip-off of Alan Roger Currie, David X etc as some people in the direct approach community have tried to suggest. To these guys, anyone who discusses the direct approach is automatically labelled as a rip-off of Currie and David X, which I find a shame because now that those guys are no longer around, we desperately need someone to promote the direct approach.

 

Inevitably there will be some overlap in what I teach vs what they did, and I try to give proper credit attribution where possible. However, I do also bring my own unique insights on direct based on my own experiences of living as a direct guy for around 18 years. I believe I add to what Currie and David X's works by teaching the more practical side of direct and how you can apply it in your life when you approach women. So what's my background with the direct approach? Read on....

 

My journey with girls started in in my teens as fairly clueless and under-confident with girls. I had a few short-lived 'boyfriend-girlfriend' relationships and flings back then, mostly girls who I met by chance through school or social circles, but I certainly did not have the skills or confidence to consistently approach and pull women.

 

In my early 20s, way back in the early 2000s, I accidently stumbled upon several online forums and the world of indirect dating/seduction advice. This led  me to the realisation that it was possible to learn how to be good with women and that it was a skill that could be worked on and improved like any other skill in life. I spent a few years trying out indirect approaches and did hundreds of approaches in the daytime as well as in bars and clubs during this period. I was quite successful and even managed to have several girlfriends during this time.

 

Although I honed my skills with women quite a bit during this time, the problem was that I was still an indirect guy. I could not shake the feeling that all the indirect methods for getting women were a bit fake and contrived. I felt like I was putting on a persona and was not really being my authentic self with women. 

 

A few years later, around 2007, I found out about some forums called direct-method.net and a few dating coaches called Alan Roger Currie and David X who introduced me to the concept of the direct approach and I knew this was the answer I had been looking for. I consumed their works, as well as some material by Marc Rudov and Zan Perrion who also inspired me in some way too. 

 

I subsequently spent many years refining my direct approach skills and bring to the table my own insights based on my experiences of direct approaching thousands of women. I challenged myself to reach the highest levels of being verbally direct with women, including being ultra-sexually direct. I learned from my mistakes and frustrations, and eventually reached the point where I knew what to say and do in any situation with women. 

 

I eventually reached the conclusion that being Direct, real and honest is the best, most effective and efficient way to pursue women if you want to consistently be successful with them romantically/sexually.

 

It feels liberating to know I can approach any women, any time, any place with absolute confidence and just speak my mind directly to her without any fake or manipulative tactics and I can be my authentic self with women, regardless of whether I end up hooking up with a particular girl or not. 

 

I decided to start Direct Approach Lifestyle to help guys who want to properly learn the direct approach. I am one of the few guys in the world who is TRULY direct and can genuinely help guys with this.

 

So forget about all the idiotic, dishonest, fake, unoriginal Youtube 'dating coaches' and pickup artists. Forget about 'indirect game' and all the dishonest and manipulative tactics. Forget about lame, cliched and ineffective mainstream 'dating advice'. Forget about certain 'dating coaches' who claim to be 'direct', but who actually aren't actually TRULY direct when you delve a bit deeper (hint: they're trying to treat the direct approach like it's some sort of technique or tactic, when it is not).

 

The ONLY thing you need to learn is the direct approach to achieve everything you want with women. 

 

On this website, blog and in my e-books I have managed to break everything down into a series of skills and principles you can work on so that you can  learn the direct approach too. I teach you everything you need to know in a simple and easy to follow manner. 

 

I built my direct approach skills up from scratch to where I am now. I know what it's like to struggle with women, but I also know how to go from there to being a direct approach master, so that is why you should learn from me.