Have you stopped to think about what you want & don't want when it comes to dating & relationships & the women you date?

I don't get involved with women who bring stress, drama or negativity into my life. If you are a 'drama queen', please take your bullshit somewhere else and go and annoy some other guy, not me.

I don't date psycho women, or those who have too much baggage. If you have too many emotional or psychological issues, go and see a counsellor and leave me alone. I don't care how many times men have hurt you in the past - please don't punish ME for what OTHER men did to you. If you want to be with me, you must view me as a clean slate, a fresh start, and not project your views about other men onto ME.

I don't allow women to control me or change me. If you don't like me as I am, find yourself another guy. I won't control you or try to change you, so it has to work both ways.

I also don't allow women to nag me, yell at me or talk down to me in any way. In my life, my romantic and sexual relationships are about mutual enjoyment, so if you try and torture me with any nonsense or bullshit, we will have to go our separate ways.

I like women who can hold a decent conversation, so if you cannot string a sentence together, please take you incoherent babbling elsewhere. I also like women who have some proper interests in life and not just Facebook, social media, celebrity gossip, shopping and going for beauty treatments.

When it comes to my intentions, I'm approaching you because I find you physically attractive and I'm looking for a lover, not a friend. I'm not looking for a platonic female friend or any of that crap. I'm not there to be your email buddy, text message buddy, Facebook friend or any of that lame shit. I'm there because I see you in a romantic/sexual way. If you want to be romantically or sexually involved with me, I will not communicate with you by email, Facebook, Twitter, Skype, etc. We will be communicating by phone or in person only. Texting is fine for a quick confirmation, but no long winded 'text message conversations' please.

When it comes to the type of romantic/sexual relationship I'm looking for, I don't want to be locked into a monogamous relationship; I'm very much a free spirit and I prefer non-monogamous/open relationships and no-strings casual sex (either as a one off or on an ongoing basis). I like to date multiple women, or at least leave myself the option of dating multiple women, as I like sexual variety, and I am always upfront and honest about this. If you want to be romantically or sexually involved with me you must be fine about this.

Also, I'm not looking to move in together, I don't want kids and I don't want to get married. Sorry, but if you want those things then you need to find yourself another guy.

I like girls who love sex and who are very sexually uninhibited and prepared to be sexually experimental. So if you are a sexual prude, it definitely wouldn't work out between us.

Overall, in a girl I look for someone I can spend time with where we enjoy each other's company, have good conversation and have mind-blowing sex and meet each other's sexual needs, and leave each other better than we found each other with positive memories. I don't think that's too much to ask. Relationships are so much better this way :-)

THE POINT OF THIS POST....

What exactly was the point of this point, I can hear you ask. Well, it may have seemed like I went into a long 'rant' about what I want from the women I date/hook up with in terms of personality, looks and the type of relation I'm looking for. I didn't mean it to sound misogynistic in any way. After all, I am lover of women, not a hater :-) I was just writing the blunt, uninhibited truth about what I want (and don't want) from women I become romantically or sexually involved with.
 
The point is that too many guys haven't actually sat down and thought about what they do and don't want, or what type of romantic/sexual relationship they're looking for. How can you get what you want, or communicate to women what you want, if you don't even know what you want?

So I would suggest you make your own version of this post, based upon what YOU want/don't want and with that clarity you can more easily attract the women who are right for you whilst weeding out the ones who are not.

Hopefully you 'get' this post now :-)