by Neil K
I recently watched a tv documentary called 'Sex, Lies & Rinsing Guys'. The theme of the documentary was all about a certain subset of women in society who get wealthy men to buy them really expensive gifts and possessions, and pay for their other expenses in life such as their rent, mortgage, household bills, as well as expensive international holidays. These guys literally spend THOUSANDS of pounds on these women.
These women are known as 'rinsers', because, surprise, they 'rinse' wealthy men for their money. They meet these wealthy men in exclusive bars and clubs, or online. They even have their own expertly crafted 'routine' to entrap these men and get them under their spell when they go out to these clubs and bars, and they readily admit that they deliberately hunt for naive rich guys that they can easily exploit.
Now here's the thing: these women actually tell the men upfront that there will be nothing sexual happening between the two of them. They make it clear that it's going to be 'friendship only', yet the guys STILL spend all that money on them.
One of the women in the documentary even said "If I'm not getting something that I need or I want, I've got no need for that friendship or that guy". She also believes that guys she 'dates' 'have a duty to pay their little bit towards her bills and her lifestyle'.
These women basically make a career out of being 'rinsers'.
I don't know who's worse, the men or the women? The women are bad for exploiting these men, but the men just plain idiotic for spending so much money on the women that have made it abundantly clear that they'll never sleep with them.
I am certain that these men are absolutely dying to have sex with the women, but it will never happen.
Guys! If you're going to spend money to share a woman's company, at least make sure you get something sexual out of the bargain. Instead of spending thousands of pounds on women who will NEVER have sex with you, why don't you just pay an escort to have sex with you? At least you'd actually get laid that way. Or better still, learn to master the Direct Approach so that you can get all the sex you want from women without having to spend any money at all.
Women! Pay your own fucking way through life instead of rinsing men like this. Get a fucking job or an honorable career, and stop believing you have an entitlement or divine right to a man's money just because you have a pussy.
Money doesn't make you skilled at picking up women & doesn't attract women for the right reasons
A key point here is that just because a guy has a lot of money doesn't mean he's good at pulling women. The men who are rinsed by these women have absolutely NO SKILL at attracting women whatsoever, so they have to use their money to compensate for their lack of ability. And even then, they still get no sex.
This documentary tells us that manipulative women will have some guys that they sleep with, but also some guys who they use for money but have no interest in sleeping with at all. It also tells us that it's not money that attracts the romantic/sexual attraction of women. Nope. It's a shocking example of manipulative women in society. Don't get me wrong, not all women are like this. I'd say they're in the minority, but you do have to be careful.
Female sexuality and companionship should not be monetised, and paying for either of these sets a bad precedent
It seems that in our society, female sexuality and companionship has been put on a pedestal and given more importance than male companionship. Many guys are willing to pay for sex with women, or even just for a woman's companionship without getting any sex at all. This sets a dangerous precedent because it makes it seem like it's acceptable for women to monetise their sexuality and companionship, and the more guys who keep paying women like this, the harder it will be to reverse the situation.
The bottom line is, a woman's sexuality and companionship are no more important than a man's. As a Direct guy, you must realise this and you must value yourself and convey to women that they are not more important than you.
A Direct guy would never get rinsed for his money
Fortunately the Direct approach is a shield against women like this. A Direct guy would NEVER get manipulated like this. If a woman makes it 100% clear that she has no interest in him sexually, the Direct guy would simply leave her alone and move on to another woman until he finds someone who is genuinely interested in dating or hooking up with him. A Direct guy would spend no, or minimal, money on a woman before sleeping with her, and even after sleeping with her he wouldn't necessarily need to spend any money on her if he didn't want to.
This documentary is an extreme example of female manipulation, but it also shows how badly some guys want female attention and that they will fork out so much money for it even if they don't end up getting romance or sex in return.
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