by Neil K
I was thinking to myself that being Direct and honest with women is very rare in this day and age. As I go about my daily life, I literally never see any other men who are Direct with women. In my whole life I don't think I've ever met another guy who is Direct with women. And often, if ever mention anything about Direct to other guys, it seems to go completely over their heads and they try to provide me with misguided counter arguments why it 'won't work' or it's 'too simple' or 'too forward' etc. These guys simple 'don't get it'.
It's gotten to the point where I rarely talk about Direct with other men any more. I just get on with it and only ever mention the subject if anyone ever asks me.
So why do I even need to write this post?
Well, part of the point of this post is that as a Direct guy, it can sometimes seem as if you are the 'odd one out' in that you are very different from other guys, and it can sometimes cause you to doubt the philosophy of Direct.
But in fact, being Direct with women is an entirely positive thing and you should never ever worry about being different from other men. You're different in a positive way.
By being Direct with a woman, you will stand out from all the other guys she meets too. You will be the one she remembers. Do you just want to be another generic, forgettable guy who is like every other guy? Or do you want to be someone who is perceived as unique and different from other guys?
Look, to be blunt with you, most men in society today tend to be very indirect with women. And most women have come to expect the guys they meet to be indirect with them, so when a guy who is DIRECT turns up, it immediately makes him stand out from the other guys she's met.
I firmly believe a confident Direct approach stirs something primitive inside a woman, almost as if they are hardwired to respond to a no-bullshit Direct Approach. Women find it refreshing to be approached in this manner. They are sick of men beating around the bush, rambling on, trying too hard to impress them with bullshit conversations, etc.
So look at being a Direct guy as a 100% positive thing. You are a diamond in the rough of this world. Consider yourself lucky to have this knowledge and ability, and forget about what other guys or 'society' thinks.
To your success with the Direct Approach.
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