Consistent success with women is easier if you are Direct

Published on 15 March 2015 at 17:35

by Neil K

Most dating and relationship advice is centered around the use of some sort of tactics or techniques, or involves games or manipulation of some type. You only have to browse the 'relationships' section in any bookshop, or read any typical pua/dating advice blog to realise this. Books such as 'The Rules' for women, don't do much to help the situation either.

But what most people don't seem to realise is that it's actually easier to have consistent success with women if you are Direct. I'll tell you why.

First of all, if you use an indirect approach, for every girl you hook up with or date, you will also waste a lot of time and energy in pursuing many women who are not, and never will be, attracted to you romantically/sexually who you don't end up hooking up with. Not so when you're Direct.

Secondly, it's just too damn complex and try-hard to have to remember tons of weird, indirect techniques and tactics and other bullshit. When you are Direct you don't have to remember anything, you just need to be honest and say whatever is on your mind. This is incredibly liberating and empowering, not to mention much less mentally draining! It's much easier to simply relax, be your true self and speak your mind rather than having to use tactics and techniques.

Thirdly, Direct is the best and most efficient 'sorting mechanism' to easily figure out which women are genuinely attracted to you vs those that are not. It's REALLY difficult, if not impossible, to do this consistently with indirect, but with Direct it's a piece of cake.

If you want to pull a lot of women consistently for either casual sex or dating, being Direct helps you easily eliminate the time wasters, manipulators and women who only want to be 'friends', so that you can then focus your time and energy solely on women who are on the same page as you.

Personally, I don't know anyone who is consistently successful with women by being indirect. To get consistent success with women, you've got to work efficiently, and indirect just isn't that.

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